Family Bond

Introduction

• The first responsibility is to Love and Honor God.
• Putting God first does not mean neglecting family responsibilities.

Objective

• God is the Captain of the family vessel.
• The Husband is the First Officer.
• The Wife is the Second Officer.
• Children are the Crew.
• Together, the family is to navigate toward eternal salvation.

Key Verse (Acts 10:2, NIV)

• "He and all his family were devout and God-fearing; he gave generously to those in need and prayed to God regularly".
• Fathers are encouraged to model faith, prayer, and generosity in the home.

Foundation of Family

• Psalm 127:1-5:
  • Unless the Lord builds the house, all efforts are in vain.
  • Children are a heritage and reward.
  • Blessed is the man whose quiver is full.

Family Values Today

• The U.S. divorce rate for first marriages is 40-50%.
• Root causes for family distress include:
  • Lack of commitment.
  • Infidelity.
  • Conflict and arguing.
  • Financial stress and substance abuse.
  • Poor communication, abuse, and unrealistic expectations.
• The Solution is to Build the house on Christ.

Roles in the Family

Father

• Christ is head of man (1 Corinthians 11:3).
• Direct children in God's way (Genesis 18:19).
• Love your wife and don't be harsh (Colossians 3:19).

Mother

• A noble wife is a crown (Proverbs 12:4).
• Bring children up in God's instruction (Ephesians 6:4).

Parents Together

• Practice love and respect (Ephesians 5:33).
• Train children in God's way (Proverbs 22:6).

Children

• Honor father and mother (Deuteronomy 5:16).
• Obey parents, which pleases God (Colossians 3:20).
• Listen to instruction and teaching (Proverbs 1:8).

Together

Family Together

• Love deeply and show hospitality (1 Peter 4:8-9).
• Live together in unity (Psalm 133:1).
• Love is patient, kind, forgiving, and enduring (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).

For Those Without Complete Families

• God will receive you (Psalm 27:10).
• God comforts us, so we can comfort others (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).

Conclusion

• Family is not perfect—but God is.
• Fathers: Lead with humility and prayer.
• Mothers: Nurture with wisdom and grace.
• Children: Obey with honor and respect.
• Families: Love deeply, forgive quickly, and stay united in Christ.

Prayer

• "Lord, guide my steps and guide my stops. Be Captain of our home, and bring us safely to eternal salvation".

Daily Family Bond Practices

• Daily Prayer: Share moments of gratitude and guidance.
• Shared Traditions: Strengthen family ties.
• Family Bond: Building strong relationships through faith and commitment.
• Open Communication: Encourage honest conversations with love.